Tis a Sunday for a weekend post. I slacked off on Friday and didn’t post but I need some advice like rull bad so thus – a weekend post! Hooray!
I didn’t get up at 3am to watch the Royal Wedding like Lucky did, but I have been catching the repeats all weekend. I don’t envy Kate Middleton as much as I envy Harry’s girlfriend Chelsy Davy. Will is the guy we all know we should like because he is straight laced and a gentleman, but bad boy Harry is just so freaking cute. And still on the market. Lucky, switch up our trip to Italy for London?
This whole Royal Wedding thing has made me take a look at my own life though, I just loved the ceremony and all of the traditions they took part in. It was so formal and not at all American which is why it screams class. The fact that they waited until they got to Buckingham Palace before they even had their first kiss is just precious. I want that. But it’ll never happen, because I’m American and in America if you’re not all over your new spouse at the wedding people whisper and think you don’t love each other. Ughhh…. eff this country. Anyway, in honor of the holiday and from now to eternity please refer to Lucky and I by our Royal names honorably given to us by E!’s Royal Name generator:
Princess Gizzy Arabella Ingleshirecott of New Yorksburgh and Dame Lucky Tildsley De Sotocock of New Yorkport
But, on to my real problem: work. Things seem to be getting easier every day, I’m still learning a lot and hate pretty much everyone I work with but I feel like I get a hell of a lot more than anyone else accomplished and I’m almost to the point where I can sit at my desk and google fun things until I get an email of someone asking me to do something, then I can start working.
So there’s this part time lady, we’ll call her Corned Beef. There are 4 other people that hold the same position I’m in, and a few years ago Corned Beef was one of us, she wasn’t at my desk but when the guy who sat at my desk suddenly got fired last year everyone pitched in to pick up the slack until they hired me 9 months later. Corned Beef only works 2 days a week so she misses a big majority of the drama that happens with our accounts while she’s not working. The past few weeks she’s been working on these reports basically to make sure we’re all doing everything correctly. She had come to me about a few things that I was putting into the system wrong, I took note of it and we all went on our marry day. Until Friday morning when I got to the office and saw she had sent this email Thursday night:
I know what you’re all thinking, Gizzy you’re such a tool that email is not bad at all she is trying to help you, which is exactly what Anth and JM told me when I got home Friday night and made them analyze it with me. But, I am pretty sensitive to any kind of criticism when it comes to my work, I take detailed notes on EVERYTHING and ask a lot of questions and take work very seriously because if something goes wrong I am going to make sure it wasn’t my fault – to the point where I have a hard time making friends in the office (as you can clearly see by now.) People always tell me that I’m too serious and need to take a break and go outside and get some fresh air. Uhhh no, because not taking breaks means I can leave half an hour earlier. And that’s what this is all for, so I can come home and lay in my bed. Seriously, once I have all of my student loans paid off and buy myself a new car I’m quitting my job and getting one where I only have to work 15 hours a week that just pays my rent and utilities.
But anyway, Cocktails At Tiffany’s readers this is where I am reaching out to you. What do you guys think this email means? Did I fuck up so badly that she has to take me to lunch to tell me I’m about to get fired? Is she trying to shit talk Cigarello because he taught me how to do everything wrong and doesn’t want him to hear? What are the office politics about!? They’ve already told me there’s not much room for promotion so they don’t expect me to stay more than 2 years, so how could there possibly be office politics involved at all? I don’t talk to anyone so I’m not manipulating people. This all just seems so weird to me.
Lucky did some analyzing with me Friday morning while she was at her work retreat, and I told her that I don’t think the lady is trying to be malicious or rude because she’s really my only friend at the office. But, I don’t understand why it needs to be taken outside of the office when we have conference rooms and empty offices we could easily talk in. Lucky pointed out that it’s inappropriate that she’s taking it outside of the office, and I agree. Especially if she’s going to tell me I’m doing a bunch of things wrong, I understand not wanting to embarrass me in front of anyone else, but I also feel like if I’m doing things wrong my boss needs to call me into her office to talk to me about it, not someone who is there 2 days a week and who is essentially below me and one of my assistants on our work totem pole.
The “lunch meeting” is on Tuesday, so bring on your thoughts. I need to prepare myself for anything that could fly my way Tuesday afternoon.